Waxing
a little philosophical this time.
Just
to be very clear on this, I do not care—at all, what you do in the privacy of
your bedroom. Much less do I care with whom you do it.
Moreover,
I do not care what your beliefs are. They are yours and you are entitled to
them.
I
am entitled to my beliefs and reading about the things that you believe in does
not spoil my day for even a fraction of a second.
There
is an increasing amount of support for homosexuals. These people, men and
women, are not ‘gay’ they are homosexuals.
I
am a heterosexual and happy with that.
I
do not go on marches or parades to support, or seek support, for my persuasion.
On
the social media and on television programmes and within films there is an
increasing tendency towards making homosexuality ‘acceptable’.
It
was never ‘unacceptable’.
But,
like anything else of that nature it is something that is best left in private.
I really do not want to know about it. Why is it being thrust in my face from
various directions?
There
is a film called ‘Brokeback Mountain’ that was raved about by the media and
critics alike. I have chosen not to watch it.
I
am entitled to make that choice. I do not hate the film; I do not dislike the
actors in the film; I do not ‘disapprove’ of it I merely choose not to see it.
Making
that choice dos not make me a bad person and neither does it make me
‘homophobic’. People can do as they wish with, as I say, whom they
wish—providing it is done privately.
Does
this mean that I am against love scenes in films and television series? No. It
does not. Providing that they are ‘normal’.
This
is the point, isn’t it? Heterosexual relationships are normal. This is nothing
to do with religion or any sort of moralistic outlook; it has to do with
statistics.
The
vast majority of people, Worldwide, are heterosexual. This means that anybody
who has a variation on that theme is abnormal.
‘Abnormal’
does not mean ‘disgusting’ or ‘weird’ it means that a certain behaviour or
characteristic is not something that is found in the majority.
Example:
an albino lion is abnormal because most lions are, sort of, sandy-coloured.
Because
the great majority of people are not homosexual perhaps love scenes should
cater for that majority. Many of those watching television or films are
offended by same-sex amorous behaviour. This is not just me—this is prevalent
among many people who comment to me on this subject.
It
is possible that this could be extended, in some cultures, to include kissing
between men and women and, certainly, nudity. This latter has been carried to
extremes in some series and films—leaving little, or nothing, to the
imagination.
As
you will be aware, I write stories. Lots of them. Some are available on
‘Amazon’. You may well think that I am being hypocritical because many of my
stories are aimed at what may be called an ‘adult’ audience. But my references
to sex and the relationships between men and women (always) are sparse and are
centred more on action rather than romance.
I
shall admit that, in one story, there is a relationship with a ‘cat’ (not a
‘cat’ in reality but, then, you would have to read it) but even that is only
obliquely referred to so that the reader can imagine what they like and go with
it as far as they are comfortable with in their own mind.
So
one wonders at this ‘discrimination’ law. Specifically in Indiana. There is a
‘hue and cry’ at certain retailers who are refusing to sell foodstuffs, for
example, to homosexuals. How do they know the customer is a homosexual? I
never, ever, go into a store and explain to the assistants in the shop that I
am heterosexual.
I
emphasise once more that I do not care what you do or what you believe. You
will not spoil one iota of my life by worshipping a tree or a ‘Noodly Monster’
and nor do I care what your predilections or proclivities are towards other
people. I just wish you would do it privately.
Please.
Please.
Well said.
ReplyDeleteThe usual eloquence
ReplyDeleteI have come to expect from you...well spoken, David.